How to Stay Accountable to Your Dreams: The Power of Surrounding Yourself with the Right People

"Surround yourself with people who lift you higher"- Maya Angelou

Have you ever wondered how to stay motivated to reach your goals? Or maybe you’ve asked yourself, why is accountability important for success? It’s something I’ve been asking myself for years, and the answer became clear,it’s not just about what you do, but who you do it with.

In my journey through acting, talent agency work, and coaching, I’ve discovered something essential: the people around you are everything. The energy you surround yourself with directly impacts your motivation, your ability to stay accountable, and ultimately your success. It’s not about doing it all on your own; it’s about having a support system that encourages you to show up, take action, and hold you to your highest potential.

You might be wondering, how does the people I surround myself with affect my success? It’s a simple truth- your environment shapes your mindset. If you’re around people who inspire you, who call you out when you need it, and who lift you up when you’re down, you’re more likely to stay committed to your goals. When you surround yourself with those who are driven and aligned with their own growth, it helps you stay aligned with yours too.

This has been a powerful lesson I’ve learned through my own personal and professional journey. Over time, I realized the importance of surrounding myself with individuals who saw me for who I truly am and more importantly, who pushed me to be the best version of myself. I’ve needed people who not only supported me, but also held me accountable, helping me navigate mistakes, and encouraging me to keep going even when things weren’t easy.

So, how do I find a support system for personal growth? It starts with being intentional about your circle. I’ve learned that you need to be around people who make you feel seen and heard, people who call you out when you’re not living up to your potential, but also people who allow you the space to just be yourself. You don’t need to be perfect; you just need to be genuine, and have others who empower you to do the same.

It’s important to reflect on who you’re spending the most time with. Are they helping you stay accountable to your dreams and ambitions? Are they pushing you to be better? Are they lifting you up or dragging you down? The reality is, you become the sum of the five people you spend the most time with. So, it’s crucial to curate your circle in a way that keeps you motivated and grounded.

Through my own experience, I’ve found a few non-negotiables that help me maintain this balance. First, I make sure I’m always true to myself. I honour my values and seek out people who share those values. This creates a space of mutual respect and understanding, where we can hold each other accountable without judgment. It’s about growth, not perfection.

Secondly, I stay consistent. It’s easy to let things slip when there’s no one holding you accountable, but having people who check in with you regularly, who challenge you and celebrate your wins is crucial. When you know others are invested in your success, it gives you that extra nudge to keep going, even when it feels like the going is tough.

Lastly, I’ve learned to embrace accountability, even when it’s uncomfortable. Sometimes, facing the hard truths about ourselves can be tough, but it’s in those moments of honesty that the most growth happens. Surrounding myself with people who can lovingly challenge me has been a game changer.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, how can I stay accountable to my dreams and ambitions, the answer lies in your environment. It’s about finding people who inspire, support, and challenge you- people who will help you stay aligned with your vision and hold you to the highest version of yourself.

When you create a network that lifts you up and helps you grow, you’ll find that success becomes more than just a destination. It becomes a journey, one that you take with people who see you, challenge you, and ultimately help you become the best version of yourself.

So, take a moment to evaluate your circle. Are they helping you stay accountable? Are they encouraging your growth? If not, it might be time to make some changes. Your environment has the power to either fuel your dreams or hold you back. Choose wisely, and surround yourself with people who empower you to reach your full potential.

You got this!

Jenna ✨